So, here's a question for you. Are you a naturally positive or a negative person?
We each have natural inclinations that may be influenced by:
- Social surroundings
- Environmental surroundings
Or do you have a tendency to be more pessimistic and see the glass as half empty?
The latest news is that ...your attitude may impact your health.
Women who were optimistic have a lower risk of developing heart disease or dying from any cause ...when compared to pessimistic women.
The lead physician in this study was Dr. Hilary A. Tindle, an assistant professor of medicine at the University of Pittsburgh. Here's a quote of hers regarding the study:
Hmm ...that's something to pay attention to, especially if you happen to be one of the women who tend towards being more negative. The method of defining optimism versus pessimism involved answering questions.
"The majority of evidence suggests that sustained, high degrees of negativity are hazardous to health."
Optimists tended to answer yes to: "In unclear times, I usually ...expect the best."
Pessimists tended to answer yes to: "If something can go
wrong for me ...it will."
Now, the world may say that you can't change who you are. But I say that with God ALL things are possible.
I love the book of Proverbs. Here are a few verses to consider from chapter 15:
Verse 30 "A cheerful look brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones."
Verse 13: "A happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit."
There may be lots of negative things going on in our world today. But we do have a choice as to ...how we respond.
In the midst of trying times, may I offer a few suggestions?
- Be on the lookout for what you can be thankful for. For me, writing a weekly Thankful Thursday post has helped me to look for the positive.
- Keep a sense of humor. My mom used to always have a new joke to tell us. It was so good to laugh.
- Take time out to journal your feelings of frustration or sadness or joy
- Pray and tell God all that's on your heart. He knows anyway but wants us to come to Him.
- Spend time with a friend who is positive.
- Go for a walk and notice the beauty of nature
- Swim laps
- Hike up a mountain
- Watch comedies
OK, now it's your turn. My list isn't complete but maybe you could help me out?
How do you keep positive? If you are naturally pessimistic how do you handle this? Do you have any tips to share?
And don't forget to visit Sandy at God Speaks Today for another one of her Fitness Friday posts. You'll be glad you did. She's writing about eating healthy on a tight budget. And I think we can all learn something from Sandy on this topic.